There’s nothing more awkward than meeting someone new, and when you meet them for the first time, your initial emotions are anxiety and apprehension. However, being nervous does not necessarily mean that your introduction would be terrible. If you have been nervous before you met someone for the first time, then it may not be so exciting going into a meeting, but it can be extremely helpful. It might help if you go ahead and introduce yourself, and that might even boost your confidence, as we all like to feel that we are talking to someone on the outside, even if the person knows very little about us. Here are some basic tips that will help you get through this initial stage without any unpleasant surprises or bad feelings.
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Acknowledging Your Beginner
It could be hard for you to realize that you are nervous, especially at the beginning. Start by acknowledging that you are nervous and that you know little about other people. Try to recognize that your mind wanders a lot and that your nerves are likely already jangling. Then, you can try to let go of your fears and accept that you will probably lose some of your inhibitions with your new knowledge. For now, sit straight down (with the right posture), and take a seat directly opposite the person you want to talk to while trying to keep your focus on their appearance and actions rather than your nerves. When you finally do look up at the person, just keep looking until you see something interesting.
The first meeting should be fun. But most importantly, you need to smile and keep smiling. If your initial reaction after your first meet-ups was one of fear and panic, you need to calm down and trust yourself because you don’t know the person well enough. The only way out of there would be to make sure that you do understand every word the person says — from the small talk to the big questions.
Avoid Impression Management
There are a couple of things that you should avoid doing in an interview:
- Stressful or intimidating questions
- Listening to what they say.
- Listening actively to the answers.
- Hitting them with your hands to imitate their movements.
- Giving fake smiles.
When you hear your interviewer talking, ask yourself, “Is this person really here? Does he want to talk about me? Why wouldn’t I listen carefully to his answers and nod when necessary?” When you notice that you are nodding too much or responding too loudly, you need to bring yourself back to reality. No matter how strong the questions he asks are, that doesn’t make him a bad guy, but try to find ways to moderate yourself and be aware that you were probably overthinking it at some point. Also, don’t give anyone a chance to pick you apart. Everyone loves to give advice — even if you didn’t actually request it — but you need to give it a chance! Ask questions like:
Is my next move working or is it dragging?
Do I have an answer at hand for this question?
What other questions am I supposed to ask here that aren’t important?
Is other topics are covered on our date?
What are some questions I would like covered on my special day?
And when your interviewer asks about past experiences, give them a yes or no answer. Give the impression of curiosity and interest in the subject, and you will win someone’s attention and interest!
If the topic of conversation is heavy, and the host mentions topics that interest you, ask questions that will catch your eye. Some examples and will be quite common questions that will be answered with yes or no answers. Keep asking questions, because if not, they are likely to drop your name or start dropping subtle hints about you.
Asking probing Questions
There are many types of questions that you should always ask in an interview: the ones which can be easily answered directly and those which are going to be difficult to handle indirectly. The harder part is the indirect questions. That’s where the bulk of the work lies. They are easier to answer indirectly than directly, but they are also more dangerous since they are harder to interpret. One particular example of such questions would be -What has happened to Bob recently? — this question is very risky because it refers to somebody who you barely know, and we will rarely even know who is referred to in this question. This is why it is so important to ask direct questions — or at least to ask the wrong questions.
The most significant thing to remember, though, is that you should always prepare yourself to write the answers to any of these indirectly, as they are probably more interesting and will require more knowledge than you are aware of, and thus you need to figure out how to structure them and give them meaning. Otherwise, you will end up with long rambling answers that nobody will be interested in reading! So, ask open-ended questions instead of straightforward ones, and when you are ready to give your opinion or answer them, use a friendly tone and approach. At the same time, keep your face relaxed.
Include Themselves Into Conversation
One final tip which will help you get over your nerves during your introversion. Try to include yourself in the discussion. Remember, it’s not a new acquaintance that you want to interact with — let alone an unfamiliar acquaintance. Put your own personal touch in the responses. Let them know that someone had once told you that you looked exactly like a bear, and it’s true; you almost look like one — but if you are interested in learning about bears you should at least mention that.
How to introduce yourself in an interview :
Good morning sir ! I am Usman Malik from Rawalpindi. I have completed BA from Wings college in 2018. At present i have been pursuing MA in English from Wings college Rawalpindi. I have six members in my family, they are my parents, three brothers and me. My strength is, i am hard working, self motivated and dedicated towards my work. My weakness is, i am workaholic and my hobbies are playing cricket, reading books and surfing net. That’s all about me thank you …
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